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Jerome "Jody" Lapham Jr.
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Jerome "Jody" Lapham Jr. Obituary
He is survived by his wife, Diane Lapham; his daughter Kristen Lapham; and two sons, Scott and J Lapham.
Per the family's request, services will not be held at this time. A celebration of life will be held at a later date and details will be posted on the funeral home website once arrangements have been made.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Jerome's memory can be made to The Michael J Fox Foundation at give.michaeljfox.org; the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation at www.cff.org; or the Lupus Foundation of New England at lupusne.org.
For more information and to view the full obituary please visit www.rivetfuneralhome.com
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Willow H
June 24, 2025
Sending my heartfelt condolences to Diane and family. May you feel comforted by the love and support of family and by happy memories from when Jody was healthy and strong. He was one of a kind, and I am privileged to have had the chance to know him.
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The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home
June 21, 2025
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